Uploaded by Ben Morehead, Associate Publisher of Policy Review magazine and authorized agent for the copyright owner(s). CHICAGO'S HOUSE OF HOPE Tough, Loving Methods of Helping the Homeless by Sister Connie Driscoll From the Summer 1993 issue of Policy Review To subscribe to Policy Review, call (800) 544-4843 Ten years ago, Sister Therese O'Sullivan and I were surprised by a spiritual calling to help homeless women and their children on Chicago's impoverished south side, and opened the St. Martin de Porres House of Hope. It wasn't work we had planned to do, or that we had trained to do, but we found a real need in this community, and we realized we had to do what we could to heal these battered lives. Since we opened our first residence in 1983, we've learned a lot about homelessness -- what causes it, what perpetuates it, and what we believe needs to be done to alleviate it. The issue of homelessness has been a major headline grabber in the last few years, with a whole network of homeless advocacy groups springing up around the country. These advocates -- some of whom have never even worked with the homeless population -- believe the solution to homelessness is simply to provide housing. Our experience has convinced us that, while the housing supply is a factor, the deeper problem is a lack of personal responsibility on the part of homeless people themselves. Breaking Down Walls The St. Martin de Porres House of Hope is located in a pair of old buildings in the Woodlawn neighborhood, not very far geographically from Hyde Park, the University of Chicago's locale. I discovered the need in this neighborhood when I came back to Chicago to visit the nuns who had taught me in high school. They walked me around the Woodlawn neighborhood, and took me to a soup kitchen. The needs of the local population were great, so I decided to stay. Sister Therese joined me in finding and leasing our first building, which we bought six months later with money we raised from donations. We learned a lot about rehabbing and remodeling -- including the best way to break down a brick wall and techniques for getting the most out of a sledgehammer -- when we were getting our first building ready to open. The need for facilities in Chicago was so great that women began moving in even before the work was done. Our skills were in good shape by the time we took on our second building, the local Catholic parish's former school. Today we have a total of 110 beds for women and their children in the two facilities. We reserve two-thirds of our space for substance abusers. Our success rate -- only 4 to 5 percent of our residents ever return to Chicago's shelter system, as opposed to nearly 40 percent for the system as a whole -- tells us we're doing something right. Responsibility and Accountability St. Martin's is different from other shelters because -- to put it bluntly -- this is not a place where homeless women are going to be coddled. We put a tremendous amount of stress on personal responsibility and accountability, which sets our group apart from most other agencies. There are many causes of homelessness: drug and alcohol addiction, mental illness, and lack of education or housing are just a few. But what we've found is that the most common cause is a lack of personal responsibility; thanks to public assistance, these women almost always have the money to pay their rent, but they often do not. Sometimes they spend the money on something else; or they get mad at the landlord and don't pay the rent; or they forget to pay the rent on time, month after month, until the landlord evicts them. The public welfare bureaucrats say the poor don't receive enough government money, but I disagree. The main causes of homelessness are various kinds of dysfunctionality, and an often total lack of understanding of personal responsibility and discipline. Anyone who wants to stay at St. Martin's has to follow the rules, and we have a large number of rules to follow. Wake-up is at 6:30 A.M. every morning on weekdays, and 7:00 A.M. on weekends. Every woman is expected to keep her own area neat and clean. All residents must attend group sessions on Monday and Wednesday mornings from 10:00 A.M. until 11:30 A.M.; at these sessions, residents discuss their problems, what they hope to achieve in their lives, and how the programs at St. Martin's can help them. Substance abusers have daily 12-step meetings -- both Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous sessions are held at our facility -- evening meetings on various topics, and individual therapy sessions. Any resident who does not have a high school diploma must attend equivalency classes -- these classes are not optional. Residents are required to take classes in parenting and life skills. Mothers must keep an eye on their children at all times, although we do have our own preschool, open every day, for the younger children of our residents. We try to teach our residents financial responsibility as well. Anyone who stays here is required to save 80 percent of her assistance money and 50 percent of her food stamps, so that she will have a nestegg when she leaves to set up her own household again. Learning to manage and save money is imperative for these women, so we also instruct them about comparative shopping, and other real-life skills. Strict Rules Since accountability is so important, we have strict rules regarding the whereabouts of our residents; they can't just come and go. They must sign out when they leave the building, stating their destinations -- just writing "out" is not adequate -- and their expected time of return. They also must tell us if they'll be present for meals. Women with children must be in by 7:30 P.M. except in summer, when the curfew is extended to 8:15 P.M. Everyone else has to be in by 9:30 P.M. These curfews don't apply to the substance abusers; they are not allowed to leave without getting a pass and telling us specifically where they are going. They also have a four-hour limit on how long they can be gone, a limit we can extend as they get stabilized. It goes without saying that alcohol, drugs, and weapons are not allowed on the premises. Any prescription medication is locked up, and issued when needed -- our first priority is the safety of the children. These are tough rules -- and there are many more -- and we receive a lot of criticism from other service-providers because of them. Even some members of our own religious orders think we are too hard on our residents. But the fact is that discipline and responsibility are what these women need, and this "tough love" works. If one of the residents is having a difficult time following the rules, we have a talk with her. We give everyone several chances to get her life together. If a resident can't work out her problems at St. Martin's, we help her to find a different place to go. But such relocations don't happen often. Despite all our rules, women beat our doors down to get in to St. Martin's. The word on the street is that we're tough but fair, and that St. Martin de Porres is the place to come if you want to get your life in order. Many of our residents have been in other shelters, and they have not received the kind of help they really need. Most of our residents are referred to us by government agencies, including Chicago's Department of Human Services or the Department of Children and Families, or by hospitals, schools, or churches. Hardly anyone just walks through the door -- but homeless women often ask for a referral to us. Drug Abuse The very hardest part of my job is watching the suffering of good people with substance-abuse problems, and what that does to their children. The effect on the kids is the most gut-wrenching part of all. Substance-abusers, in particular, have a hard time resolving their problems; they really have to want to turn their lives around. Over the years we have seen more and more women with drug- and alcohol-abuse problems, and a year ago we made the decision to devote half of our resources to them. Once we get these residents stabilized, we encourage them to look for apartments. Many of our "graduates" live in the community, in two nearby apartment buildings, where they can support each other in their efforts. They still call in to the House of Hope and let us know how they're doing; they still come in here for Narcotics Anonymous meetings, and every Sunday afternoon they have a meeting of their own. So far, our success rate with drug users has been very encouraging. At the same time we decided to separate the abuser population from the other homeless, we drastically cut back on the number of pregnant and parenting teens we housed. This population used to be a large part of our clientele. The primary reason for the decision to reduce our beds for this group is that most of these girls are not really homeless. Perhaps one out of 100 really qualifies as homeless; the rest just did not want to follow their mama's rules. Helping these girls was a very tough proposition for us: if they weren't going to obey their mothers, and get into the house by 9:00 or 10:00 at night, they sure weren't going to follow our guidelines, and be in by 7:30! So instead of offering them shelter, we've changed our focus -- we try to get them back with their families, and to make sure they stay in school so they can get the educations they must have if they're ever going to break the dead-end cycle of poverty. When pregnant and parenting teens come to us, we require that they stay in school. Then we assign to the girl a case worker, who works with the girl to get her back together with her family and into programs to help with specific problems. We try to help these girls set and achieve goals, for themselves and for their children, and we follow up continually. In the meantime, we're putting our limited housing resources where they can make the most difference: rehabilitating drug and alcohol abusers. I think we've made the right choice. The second-hardest part of the job, I must admit, is raising funds. The bulk of our support comes from foundations, corporations, individuals, and speaking fees -- I'll go almost anywhere to make a speech. I do most of the fund-raising myself. To maintain our independence, and continue to operate our shelter in the way we feel we must, we do not accept money from any government agency, or even from the Roman Catholic Church. Some individual parishes do take up special collections for us, and that helps. But things are often tight. Sister Therese and I are fortunate to have a dedicated staff who put in long hours for very little money; nobody who works for us is doing it for the pay scale. Our work at St. Martin's, and our techniques for helping homeless women take charge of their lives, attracted attention at City Hall. Chicago's Commissioner of Human Services, Daniel Alvarez, decided it would be a good idea to have a civilian head up Mayor Richard Daley's Task Force on the Homeless, and he thought I might bring some fresh ideas to the job, so I was appointed chairman in 1989. I am the first non-bureaucrat to hold the position. One of my first acts as chairman was to re-evaluate the way the staffs of Chicago-area shelters were counting the number of homeless in our city. Homeless Numbers Don't Add Up The actual number of homeless in America is a hotly contested figure. I think some of the advocates inflate the number of homeless individuals in order to get more financial assistance from the agencies that support them. Actually, there are more than enough genuine homeless people without exaggerating the count. The National Coalition for the Homeless claims that there are between 2.5 to 3 million homeless people in the United States. I think that number is vastly inflated; the real number is probably closer to half a million, and they are not all looking for shelter on the same night. I base my estimate on regular polls I take of the usage of shelters in different cities, a poll I update frequently. So I no longer pay attention to the NCH figures. The homeless count gets inflated in part because people who aren't really homeless are often included, like those who are just between apartments for a few days, and go to a shelter instead of to a friend's place or a motel. In Chicago, the court-mandated system says that anytime there aren't enough regular beds for the inmates at Cook County Jail, the excess population has to be released, and many of these men simply head for a homeless shelter. They are not allowed to sleep on mattresses on the floor in jail, but that is exactly what they do as soon as they're released. Another major problem is the overcounting of the legitimate homeless. Previously, if a woman went to Shelter A and found it full, she was counted as a turn-away. If she went to Shelter B, and they didn't have room either, she was counted a second time. By the time she actually found a bed at Shelter C, she'd been counted three times. To prevent this overcounting, I developed a form for service providers to fill out, with space for initials (to preserve privacy), age, number of children, and their ages -- to prevent double and triple counting. By implementing this tracking system, we cut the count of turn-aways in Chicago by two-thirds. Today, in my capacity as chairman of the task force, I keep track of all of the area-shelter statistics, and we have a pretty good idea of exactly how many homeless people there are in the city and how many beds are required. These statistics tell me that our methods work better than those used by other groups for tracking the homeless population. Warming Centers vs. Real Warmth Another point on which we disagree with the advocates is whether or not we need warming centers. There are a number of well-meaning people who believe in setting up mattresses in church basements and letting people sleep there overnight. Usually, it's a different location every night, and the people have got to find a place to spend the day. Too often, they make a nuisance of themselves in local libraries and parks. What's worse, they don't have the continuity that they need to get their lives together. I can't imagine sleeping in a different place every night, with no place to keep my personal belongings, no place to go during the day, no way to put a resum‚ together, nowhere even that I could tell a prospective employer he could call me! I especially can't imagine putting a child through it -- yet, many homeless advocates are putting resources into these warming centers, instead of into real shelters with real programs that could help these people regain their lives. If you're going to try to get people stabilized, you can't just revolve them through a nightly system. You have to do more than offer them a place to sleep. There is an urgent need for more shelters that take our approach and advance the objective of getting the homeless to be more responsible for their own lives. My first word of advice to anyone considering the St. Martin's approach is to take off the rose-colored glasses. Take a look at each individual person, and try to address her or his needs. Because no matter what you do, you're not going to solve the whole homeless problem with one program. We spent our first six months figuring out that you can only do so much. We've found that it is essential to keep the house from getting too large. I think that anything over 100 adult beds is too big, because you can't really give individuals the help they need. Frankly, I think the smaller houses -- those with 50 or 60 beds -- have the best chances for success. Another thing we've determined in our work is that government assistance actually may be part of the problem. We're not going to see any significant improvements in the homeless numbers until we see some major policy changes in the way welfare is administered. I'd like to see the whole system abandoned; people should not live continually on the dole. People must obtain job skills; they have to decide on their own what they want to make of their lives. The homeless advocates, because of their heavy reliance on government funding, have called me cruel for saying that we must cut off this easy government money, that we must put time limits on how long individuals can collect assistance, and that we must put limits on the amount of assistance available. But the fact is there's nothing more satisfying than being self-sufficient, and accomplishing your goals. The people who have come through St. Martin de Porres are happy. Their lives are their own. They have discovered the satisfactions of earning their own money, saving their money, and spending it as they wish. Success and Independence The really satisfying part of my job is seeing our success stories, and they're all over the Chicago area, with jobs and responsibilities. They are living in decent apartments; they're teaching their children a better way to live; they're getting educations and turning their backs on the way they used to live. Not a day goes by that Sister Therese and I don't hear from a former resident, just checking in to let us know how her life is coming along. And it's almost always good news. Happy Endings There are women like Juanita Green, a child of the black middle class who had a college degree and a responsible job, and burned them both up with her five-year crack habit. When she arrived at St. Martin's, she was broke, with a brand-new baby; her other child had been taken from her and was in foster care. Her first day here, she told us, "I feel like I'm no good." We told her it was up to her to make things happen, but that we were here to help her. Nine months later, she was clean; she'd saved $3,000 in cash, and more than $1,200 in food stamps. She was reunited with her older daughter, and she was ready to set up her own apartment. It was a proud moment when she got a job, told public aid goodbye, and came back to inform us, "Now I'm a taxpayer again." "Roxanne" (not her real name) will admit that she doesn't always maintain our strict 10:30 P.M. bedtime -- but at least she's not staying up all night anymore. She benefitted from our forced discipline and accountability -- and tells us that the life-skills classes she had at St. Martin's taught her how to take care of her children. Through our programs, Roxanne kicked her crack and alcohol addictions, and has stayed clean. Being free from drugs and a good mother to her children are huge accomplishments for this former resident, and she credits the responsibility she learned at St. Martin's with giving her the strength to do both. Most of our clientele is poor and black, but by no means all. One of the toughest cases we've ever had was "Catherine," from a middle-class white family. She was sent to us six months pregnant, after seven years of continuous drinking. Catherine was abusive, and tested every single limit we had. One night she managed to slip out the back door of the shelter, get hold of a bottle, and disappeared for several days. We threw her out when she finally turned up several days later -- but she came back the next week, bruised and battered, and begged us to take her back. We did, but we watched her like hawks after that; she didn't even get to go to the bathroom by herself. Three months later Catherine had a beautiful baby with no trace of fetal alcohol syndrome; today, she's happily married and has a good job. Catherine is one of our greatest success stories, but there are scores of other women like her. The St. Martin de Porres House of Hope alone can only do so much. But there is no reason that other individuals or groups who want to make a difference helping the homeless can't apply the same principles and achieve the same results. I firmly believe that the only way we really can help the homeless is to teach them how to help themselves. SISTER CONNIE DRISCOLL is president of St. Martin de Porres House of Hope. BRYAN MILLER, who assisted in writing this article, is a freelance writer in Chicago. To reprint more than short quotations, please write or FAX Ben Morehead, Associate Publisher, Policy Review, 214 Massachusetts Avenue, NE, Washington, DC 20002, FAX (202) 675-1778.