Catholic Curriculum Promotes Anti-Family Agenda p.26 by Diane Dew, copyright 1994 A RELIGION TEXT used in some Catholic high schools promotes an anti-family, feminist agenda. "Loving - A Catholic Perspective on Vocational Lifestyle Choices" by Michele McCarty (Wm. C. Brown Co., Dubuque, IA) glorifies the single life, justifies homosexuality, encourages childlessness, redefines the family and undermines parental authority. Parenthood is presented as burdensome and marriage as a restrictive bond that many in today's society (the wise?) choose to do without: "The responsibilities involved in raising children are too much of a strain on a marriage that lacks a strong, mature love" (p. 176). "In the past, both Church and society emphasized the vocational choice of marriage far more than the single life. . . . Today our society is finally beginning to recognize the validity of the single lifestyle" (p. 59). "Homosexual orientation is not a moral wrong! Persons' sexual orientation, in fact, may be due to their genetic makeup" (p. 66). "No one knows for sure exactly when or how the institutions of marriage and family first started," the textbook reads. "We do know that no one idea of marriage has unanimously prevailed throughout history" (p. 171). Whatever happened to Scripture? (Remember, this is a religion text, in a school not subject to government regulation.) The same paragraph states: "Women had few rights of their own until modern times." The feminist agenda is alluded to elsewhere in the text: "The nature of family life has changed throughout human history, and it is still changing. A significant percentage of families in our society today has only one parent. . . . Some are single parents by choice. . . . more couples than in the past choose not to have children. And more other couples are having fewer children and are waiting longer to have them" (p. 257). "Also, many women today are far better educated than in the past," the text reads, "and there is a new and growing recognition of equality between men and women in our society and in its laws. . . . Sharing responsibilities more equally in marriage enables today's family members to break away from those more traditional family roles which were too stiff and confining . . ." (p. 259). The family is redefined, purportedly by the Catholic Church: "'Family' no longer means only a man and a woman who are married to each other and their children. . . . Catholic teaching has perhaps the best, most inclusive definition of the family in its ideal expression: '. . . a community of individual persons joined by human love and living a community life that provides for the greatest expression of individualism'" (p. 259). McCarty's source for the "Catholic teaching" with "the best, most inclusive definition of the family" is "Human Life in Our Day," a 1968 statement by American bishops in response to "Humanae Vitae." Some of the exercises in this text picture adults in a very negative way. Adults break promises, lie, tell kids how to dress, never listen or understand, interrupt, and "punish children unfairly," "talk about money too much," gossip, and "pry into children's secrets" (p. 299). Such exercises only undermine the family unit; they serve no valid purpose. "Loving" describes children as a big hassle. Student exercises present only the negative, quoting parents who say kids are "not worth the trouble," an interference with parents' lifestyles. Children make a previously "attractive, fulfilled career woman" an "exhausted, shrieking, nervous wreck." They take "all the romance out of marriage." Children make parents "too tired for sex, conversation or anything else . . . Not one of our children has given us any pleasure . . . one reason for the disillusionment . . . parents find themselves financially strapped with unexpected bills . . . no longer able to take romantic vacations . . . have to stay up all night with sick kids . . ." Kids are merely an unpleasant interruption, an interference (pp. 261, 263). "Overpopulation" and the cost of raising children are cited as deterrents to having children: "More and more couples are postponing having children . . . And more couples are choosing to limit the size of their family" (p. 269). "Loving" also tells students that it's not morally wrong to follow your conscience, even if your conscience is improperly formed. "Individuals can make a decision or follow a course of action sincerely believing theirs to be the morally right choice, even though, objectively speaking, their conscience is incorrect and their conclusion and actions are wrong. In this case, they are not guilty of a moral wrong because they are following their conscience in good faith . . ." (p. 272). What about 1 Timothy 4:2; 1 Corinthians 8:7, 12; Titus 1:15? Several pages are devoted to teaching students about various contraceptives; some of the information is incorrect. Condoms, for example, do not have a 90% to 97% effectiveness rate. (Even Planned Parenthood's published statistics are lower.) Is this what parents expect when they pay to send their child to a Catholic school? Is this what they expect their child to be taught in religion class? What will it take to hold schools accountable? Scripture holds the bishop responsible for overseeing the spiritual instruction of the children of God: "For they watch over your souls" (Hebrews 13:17; 1 Peter 5:2). Several years ago the "Loving" text was banned from Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. At this writing it is still being used in Milwaukee. As noted in a letter by Margo Szews to the Parent Advisory Committee of Milwaukee's Pius XI High School in 1985, some of the student exercises outlined in the text, "if they were to take place in a public school receiving federal funds, would require parental permission . . ." Yet trusting parents are unaware of the teaching their children receive. In the introduction to "Believing," another text by McCarty, the teacher is instructed "to keep in mind that it is not his or her duty or obligation . . . to determine for students what their life-beliefs and religious convictions will be." Rather, teachers are to merely "act as guides," the author writes, "in exposing the students to the different aspects and implications of the various belief choices . . . merely offer ideas . . ." "Thus, it cannot and should not be presumed," the author writes, "that the point and purpose of teaching these students a course on religious belief is to convince them of certain 'truths'" or to make them into committed, "adult religious believers." Scripture warns about the coming of false teachers in the last days. According to Church Law: "It is necessary that the formation and education given in a Catholic school be based upon the principles of Catholic doctrine; teachers are to be outstanding for their correct doctrine and integrity of life" (Can. 803.2). ". . . it is the responsibility of the diocesan bishop to regulate such education and be vigilant over it" (Can. 804.1). "The diocesan bishop has the right of vigilance over . . . Catholic schools located in his territory, even those schools which have been established or are being directed by members of religious institutes . . ." (Can. 806.1). "The conference of bishops and the diocesan bishops concerned have the duty and right of being vigilant that in these universities the principles of Catholic doctrine are faithfully observed" (Can. 810.2). In "the appointment of teachers to Catholic universities . . ." teachers must be selected who are "outstanding in their integrity of doctrine and probity of life; when these requisite qualities are lacking they [the teachers] are to be removed . . ." (Can. 810.1). "The local ordinary [bishop] is to be concerned that those who are assigned as religion teachers . . . be outstanding for their correct doctrine, their witness of Christian living . . ." (Can. 804.2). -----------------------------------------------------------------------