MARRIAGE: What does the Bible say? ===================================== GOD'S WORD SAYS MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE Hebrews 13:4 4 Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. MARRIAGE IS A PERMANENT BOND BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE Matthew 19:5 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 1 Corinthians 7:10 10. And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to [her] husband: and let not the husband put away [his] wife. MARRIAGE IS DISSOLVED BY DEATH Romans 7:2 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of [her] husband. THE HUSBAND'S DUTY Ephesians 5:25 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: Colossians 3:19 19 Husbands, love [your] wives, and be not bitter against them. 1 Peter 3:7 7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. THE WIFE'S DUTY Ephesians 5:21 21. Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Colossians 3:18 18. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Proverbs 14:1 1. Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 31:10 10. Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price [is] far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:30 30 Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a woman [that] feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. LOVE, COMMITMENT, AND OBEDIENCE TO GOD AND HIS WORD IS NECESSARY IN MARRIAGE Ephesians 4:31 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: 32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. James 1:22 22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. PRAYER OF COMMITMENT Lord Jesus, I confess I have not been the kind of (Husband, wife) You want me to be. I now invite You into my life and marriage and ask that You build a strong love relationship between my (husband, wife) and me. by A. Yusko and E. Prior The Seed Sowers P.O. Box 2513, Station F Scarborough, Ontario, M1W 3P2 BBS (416) 498-5259/5962